The Worst Day of my Life

All of you know Skylarisapokemon. Well she is the Skylar I have been venting about for the past two months. THeo ne who broke up with me and the one I want back. yada yada yada.

Well it turns out that a week from Monday (May 26) We aren't allowed to have any sort of communication with eachother at all until her mom says we can or until she turns 18.

Her mom is making her change her number, delete me off of myspace, block me on AIM, and everything so we lose comunication with eacchother.


I don't know what to do. It's compeltely stressing me out. She means everything to me and now we aren't allowed to talk to eachother. SHe says she doesn't want it to happen but she says its what we need.

Her boyfriend is tearing us apart. Since she started dating him me and her have been drifting apart. Skylar and I have known eachother for 3 years and when this new guy comes in he messes everything up. Like he is more important than me in her life. I understand he is her boyfriend but that shouldn't change our friendship.

She says its her mom is making her do this but she is agreeing with it. She isn't gonna make a stand to where we still can talk to eachother.

I don't want this to happen. I want my best friend. I want the only person I love and care about to be in my life. Whether we're daitng or not. I just want her to be there.

What do I do? How can I handle this?

Wow. Thats really harsh.
If I were her I wouldnt let my moms do that.
I think the most id let her do is be able to read everything thats online and hear us when were talking on the phone. But even then thats pushing it for me.

I really need to advice on what to do. How can I hand;e all of this?

Someone please help me.

aww that's gotta be tough on you. im so sorry. all you can really do is let it go and wait, i guess. or don't take no for an answer and maybe try and be sneaky and go see her when her Mom isn't around. my ex stopped communication all on his own. i only talk to his family. ive known him for about 3 yrs too and his new gf screwed us up as well. I hate people who barge into other people's lives! I know your hurting but you can't do much at this point. I'm so sorry.

the best thing...
write her a letter...
tell her everything u feel...
then include in the letter that u will give her time...
tell her that u're very happy and contented just to be her friend...
tell her that u will give her space... and let her go... but... make sure that she will come back if the time is right... let her know that u're very understanding...
u're her best bud... and she will return to u... don't worry... that already happened to me and a very close friend of mine... we didn't talked for 3 months... then he just sent me a message of HELLO... and we're friends again...

good luck on u...
things will surely get better... just be patient and understanding...
God will help u...

xXxDeityOfMiseryxXx wrote:

the best thing...
write her a letter...
tell her everything u feel...
then include in the letter that u will give her time...
tell her that u're very happy and contented just to be her friend...
tell her that u will give her space... and let her go... but... make sure that she will come back if the time is right... let her know that u're very understanding...
u're her best bud... and she will return to u... don't worry... that already happened to me and a very close friend of mine... we didn't talked for 3 months... then he just sent me a message of HELLO... and we're friends again...

good luck on u...
things will surely get better... just be patient and understanding...
God will help u...

Thank you.

Skylarisapokemon, did you read that? Please understand. I really don't want this to happen. Please try to convince your mom to let us still talk. I will back you up no matter what. If she wants to talk to me, let her. I won't say anyhting bad

Jared. Why do you include everyone in OUR business?
This has nothing to do with Taylor, and this is totally a mom and daughter decision.
I have been convice that you just WONT let go, I mean your my best friend but i cant take all of this.
You keep thinking that things will work out but right now, they wont, for a LONG time, WE BOTH need space, to think and to breathe, I talk to you more than my own boyfriend, and I fell bad for that. I cant take just listening to you caling me and crying about hom i dontl ove you anymore. I wish you'd bqack off and let me and Taylor breathe. You want to meet me everywhere I go, even if im with Taylor, and i cant see you because of the fact that you still love me, and my boyfriend doesn want you around me.

Look, its now MY choice when I get to talk to you again.
MY choice
meaning I'll talk to you when I fell its time

I want you to get over me
I WANT you to get someone new
I WANT you to live a great summer, because I probably wont talk to you at all this summer.
and I hope you find someone who cares about you as much as you love them.
You are my best friend
but you have told me that you think your bipolar and skitzo
im sorry but sometimes you scare me.
you keep saying taylor is tearing us apart, hes not doing ANYTHING, hes fine with me seeing you, but hes rather I not, and In my heart i believe that you and I cant talk right now, not til things are better.
I MADE A STAND, but my mom will not give up, she says she thinks it for the best and honestly i do too.

Im sorry but i think this is how it should.

skylarisapokemon wrote:

Jared. Why do you include everyone in OUR business?
This has nothing to do with Taylor, and this is totally a mom and daughter decision.
I have been convice that you just WONT let go, I mean your my best friend but i cant take all of this.
You keep thinking that things will work out but right now, they wont, for a LONG time, WE BOTH need space, to think and to breathe, I talk to you more than my own boyfriend, and I fell bad for that. I cant take just listening to you caling me and crying about hom i dontl ove you anymore. I wish you'd bqack off and let me and Taylor breathe. You want to meet me everywhere I go, even if im with Taylor, and i cant see you because of the fact that you still love me, and my boyfriend doesn want you around me.

Look, its now MY choice when I get to talk to you again.
MY choice
meaning I'll talk to you when I fell its time

I want you to get over me
I WANT you to get someone new
I WANT you to live a great summer, because I probably wont talk to you at all this summer.
and I hope you find someone who cares about you as much as you love them.
You are my best friend
but you have told me that you think your bipolar and skitzo
im sorry but sometimes you scare me.
you keep saying taylor is tearing us apart, hes not doing ANYTHING, hes fine with me seeing you, but hes rather I not, and In my heart i believe that you and I cant talk right now, not til things are better.
I MADE A STAND, but my mom will not give up, she says she thinks it for the best and honestly i do too.

Im sorry but i think this is how it should.

I understand you don't want to be with me. I told you. I am over you. I didn't say anything in the first message saying that "I want you to be my girlfriend, I want you back" I said that I want my BEST FRIEND in my life.

And about you talking to me, dont' talk to me as much. We can talk just a little bit a day, or maybe a little bit a week. We went two days without talking much, why can't we pull through like that?

You say you want me to have a great summer, but how can I do that if I know that my best friend won't call me, talk to me, and doesn't want me to be around her?

About me being bipolar and skitzo, I'm not. I don't know about the bipolar, but I KNOW for damn sure I'm not a skitzo.

I still love you Skylar, but not in the way you think I do. Everytime we hang up we say "I love you" to eachother. I mean thati n the friend;y way. You say it to me, I say it to you, it means nothing.

But you have to understand where I'm coming from. We went from being as close as can be to almost enemies. We were good friends when you and Taylor weren't close but now the closer you two get, the farther we get. He doesn't have to do anyhting, he is tearing us apart. THe more htings you do with him, the less you talk to me.

Like I've been completely erased from your life. YOu have no idea how that feels.

This is so sad to see...
Im sorry this is happening.
But you should try to move on.

I have moved on, but I still don't want to lose my best friend.

I'm not in love with her anymore, she's not the girl I fell in love with. She's changed completely, but she is still my friend no matter what. I don't want to give her up.

EifiBurakki wrote:

I have moved on, but I still don't want to lose my best friend.

I'm not in love with her anymore, she's not the girl I fell in love with. She's changed completely, but she is still my friend no matter what. I don't want to give her up.

Dont switch it on me, saying I've changed, look in the mirror

I'm not trying to switch it on you, but you have changed, alot.

I thought you would be happy to hear I'm not in love with you anymore.