So this girl.....

I was with my girlfriend for 11 months (April 4 was supposed to be our anniverssary) and one day we got in a stupid fight. Not a big one either. We considerably "broke up" like we normally do on stupid fights but this one was different.

The next day I appologize to her and it turns out she is dating someone else already. When I appologized to her she said she was gonna break up with her current bf for me. Well its been 2 weeks and she hasn't broken up with him.

Then she says that she is in love with the other guy after she told me multiple times before that she is in love with me. I ask her how this happened and she told me that "She can't control her feelings"

She said if she breaks up with her boyfriend she will go out with me again but I don't know how long that will take. Its killing me inside knowing that she loves somebody else after me and her were intimate *wink wink*

Should I wait for her or move on? I really need your help.

Never ever wait for someone. I made that mistake before and all it does is hurt you in the end. If she really loves you she will come to you. Give her time and if it is really love she will find her way back to you.
Stay strong and good luck
Xtina

Well if she really does love me and just doesn't want to hurt the other guy then shouldn't I wait for the breakup?

No, bc what if it never happens then you would just be sitting around feeling all sorry for yourself. The trick is to act like it doesn't bother you, bc then that will make her be like damn i f*ed up. Play hard to get and don't let her get to you.

That's what I'm trying to do. But its not working too well.
Should I tell her that I'm seeing another girl or that i'm single and enjoying.
Does it really matter?

EDIT: Plus, she's only 14 like me. I don't think that she will stay with him for long. We only stayed together for so long because we have been friends for 3 years before we started dating.

Don't lie to her just be happy and when she sees that you aren't upset over it it wiil get to her. Like i said b4 if its really love she will come back to you. You're still young so don't rush it, take it slow and everything will work out in the end.

Ok, thank you. I'll try the best I can.

Ugh, Why's the word LOVE thrown around so carelessly?!
ARGGH!

Admin wrote:

Ugh, Why's the word LOVE thrown around so carelessly?!
ARGGH!

What do you mean by that?
Are you insinuating that I don't know what it's like to love?
You better not be....

You are very welccome and if you ever need advice you know where to find me.

love is a strong word so she doesnt love her other bf probably just infatuation or something.you cant truly love someone in 2wks i mean get real no offense.but don't wait like that makes it seem like you're a sucker for her and if yuo are then still don't wait

No.
I was speaking of your girlfriend and her 'new' beau.

They've been dating for a month now. Turns out that she made out with the other guy.

I feel so heart broken, I was the only guy she's kissed and she makes out with him after only a month.

I can't move on...I feel so inferior. I am so deeply in Love with her. What do I do?

ok yeah so im reading back on oldddd posts
and girls kiss guys on the first date..

Where dos that come in? ^ Any who...if she knows that you are waiting for her, she will take her time, and also start not to care how you're feeling, and the fact that you are waiting. Just don't, I want to explain...but take EVERYONE'S word for it and don't.

i dont think this girl is really in love with her new boy. i think she was prolly looking for something new. when most people are as young as the 2 of you, you tend to get bored and you change and you want to experiment with different stuff. dont wait for her. be her friend, tell her your there but move on. if she wants you, she'll come back.

This thread is odl. But you're right Kia.

I'm over her and I have moved on. I would say I'm there for her, but I'd be lying. She doesn't want to be my friend...so f**k it.

she doesn't??? well... thatz how life is... im happy that u've let go...

Yep, I've found another girl and she is perfect. We aren't dating yet, but I have a feeling we might soon.

well... good for you!!!!

I just realized something...people have anniversaries when they're dating?! That seems so weird. I mean crazy weird. Is it that serious to where you need to know the date. I'm too young to keep up with things like that....plus I get bored easily, and it is because I'm young, but I think there's a disorder for what I have (and it's not ADD...OR ADHD)

Most teens don't normally keep up an anniverssary, but not many teenage couples actually last for a year, so its kind of a big thing.

Hahahahaha, that's because long term dating is LAME at such a young age. Hahahahaha, sorry!

well... in our country... lovers are very over acting!!!
we celebrate weeksary and monthsary!!! ahahah!!!
talk about overly inlove!!!

Stupid teenagers do that over here. "OMG, we've been dating for 7 days." *gives present*

IMO, its stupid. You can be happy about it, but don't go overboard.