Nothing but Problems

Camp was perfect. I got to spend 5 days with my closest friends and praise God (yes, I am religious) I had the best week of my life. The last night of faith camp I started crying in front of everyone because I didn't want to leave such perfection.

I didn't want to leave all of my friends that I wasn't going to see for a year. I didn't want to come home to my problem infested life. I have a conflict with nearly all of my friends and I come home to one of my best friends hating me.

She said this exactly "I think your a fucking hypocrite who doesn't know what he wants" and it hurt extremely bad.

What do I do? I don't have a clue anymore. All I do is cry 24/7. I don't know. Please guide me.

just say f**k it to ur problems
we all have them
and we all deal with them
take the good and the bad as they come
and when he bad comes
u point and laugh in its face
a bit like this
>HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA>
see u saw it
but honestly we all have our own ways of settling wit the bad
i fight it off
others may look at it wit uter discust
some may just let it be
all i can tell u is that u need to find out how u can take the bad and make it a good or just say f**k the bad lets get fucked up
....wait yep yep thats my mind again sorry...lol

How can I find a way to deal with them. All I do is get depressed, cry, and get mad at the people closest to me.

I haven't the slightest clue what to do.

Matty is right...but it's not that simple.
Take life for what it is...the bad, and most important, the good!
The best way [for me] to solve my problems is basically to take it step by step.
1. What is the problem
2. What caused the problem
3. How do I change, fix, solve, or etc. the problem (hand in hand w/ 5)
4. How do I present the solution to the problem (hand in hand w/ 4)
5. Here it goes... present the solution to the problem (the 1st was practice)
5. How do I relax myself in relief (sigh, now what can I do to make this moment more worth it)

God Bless!

If someone is annoyed with you, you would basically ask the person the above questions... What did I do to get you upset, how can I change the things I do to upset you, but still keep what makes me me, so if I do that then you will lighten up, good..ill try that, until then y'all should be fine. But when a time comes to put advice into practice...give it a go!

Duck wrote:

Matty is right...but it's not that simple.
Take life for what it is...the bad, and most important, the good!
The best way [for me] to solve my problems is basically to take it step by step.
1. What is the problem
2. What caused the problem
3. How do I change, fix, solve, or etc. the problem (hand in hand w/ 5)
4. How do I present the solution to the problem (hand in hand w/ 4)
5. Here it goes... present the solution to the problem (the 1st was practice)
5. How do I relax myself in relief (sigh, now what can I do to make this moment more worth it)

God Bless!

If someone is annoyed with you, you would basically ask the person the above questions... What did I do to get you upset, how can I change the things I do to upset you, but still keep what makes me me, so if I do that then you will lighten up, good..ill try that, until then y'all should be fine. But when a time comes to put advice into practice...give it a go!

It would probably be alot easier if I actually had a solution. I don't know what to do. Last night I seriously thought my best friend killed herself because of somehting I did.

Okay... problem : your best friend hates you. I can't exactly give a solution when I don't know why. I don't know if you already said why...but I don't know. Which is why I wrote that because you know all there is to know about your personal situation...and all you need to do is evaluate. lol...I like the word evaluate.

have you tried to say im sorry and mean it. tell her how much it hurts to have her mad at you. tell her you want to try and be friends again and just talk to her and see where she is coming from.

KIA is right... just tell her the truth... but if she wants time... give it to her,...