my gut...

is telling me my gf is hiding something or not telling me something. i know she's not like that but i just keep having this nagging feeling that because we only see each other like once or twice every two weeks, that...ugh idk. she says she doesnt but i think she still has feelings, if only a lil bit, for the baby's dad(no im not the baby's dad) and its eating me alive. anyone have anyadvice about what i should do?

i get that all the time
but me and my gf don't see eachother at all
can't see for 5 more months :'(
but
talk wit her about it
if she loves u she will tell u
but if nothing is wroung and you love her
then beleive her....
i should have beleive my gf when she told me... big regrets

yea...idk i think its my past coming back to haunt me. in every relationship except one ive been cheated on

have you ever been the cheater?

no actually. i saw the effects it had on my family when i was really young. thats why my mom and real dad arent together. he was a cheater. so i never wanted to do that damage to anyone. plus i feel lucky to have anyone like me period.

i know the feeling
i've had alot of girlfriends
one for 2 years
and all of them but three cheated on me
even the one for 2 years
cheated on me the hole time
fuckin bitches
and its a good thign u never cheated
i dispise cheatin
....and THATS y i feel like shit lol
but if its just ur past don't worry about it and talk wit her

Aw, poor Rod (can I call you that)
Never let your past corrupt your future.
Your girlfriend may or may not be cheating on you. The best way to find out, is when you both are in a general conversation...better yet, an amusing conversation. Say something like, "Hey, how come we don't see more of each other". That way when you're in an upbeat mood, and she decreases the excitement with her body language (or voice) you'll know she is coming up with an excuse and/or feels guilty about what ever it is she's doing. Another good reason to ask at a time like that is because she won't feel like you're trying to force answers out of her or attack her with accusations. So that way, she'll feel like it's more of an invite to more quality time (but still a question) rather than an attack. Oh and just a tip...if you ask anyone (especially a girl) to hang out again when the mood is great, she'll definitely say yes (if it's up to her)

my gut is telling me my bf is cheating.

you know ... i've had that happen a lot too...you remember when me and xtina were going out? i wasn't her one and only during that time...but that shit's over and already buried 6 feet under...

atleast you know you're not the one who would be the cheater but then again you also feel more pain than necessary after it all hit the fan...you both just have to figure it all out alone in an honest fashion...sometimes she'll slip up if she is hiding something

I never got why people said "hit the fan" what exactly does that mean....... and where dos it come from?

made someone got in a fight and threw aguy in a fan
and hey said e shit hit th fan and it caughy on?

Hahahahahaha.... that is hilarious. But can someone please tell me something legit.