Is this kind of weird?

Subject: Is this kind of weird? Thu Jun 26, 2008 3:23 pm

Okay so my oh so lovely boyfriend, Taylor, is awesome.
But everytime i talk about how i already know about what i want to name my kids (Aiden james, and Kaila Marie) he starts getting kinda sad
I asked him why
and he said its because it envolves who im marrying. and when i say "idc if my husband fights me for the names, thats gonna be there names"
he says he gets sad because he wants to marry me
but the thing is
im only 14 and hes only 16
we only been dating for about 4 months
and like, are we really ready for that?
no
i mean im okay with it, i just found it weird

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Thu Jun 26, 2008 3:49 pm

umm NOOO your not ready to get married. 4 months is nothing you think you know alot about him but you really dont and having kids is not good at your age
cause it takes alot of money to raise one ..nd he 16 , he still young so if he find some other girl he gonna leave you and go for her but thats just what i think..

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Thu Jun 26, 2008 4:45 pm

Be.Hold.A.Lady wrote:: umm NOOO your not ready to get married. 4 months is nothing you think you know alot about him but you really dont and having kids is not good at your age
cause it takes alot of money to raise one ..nd he 16 , he still young so if he find some other girl he gonna leave you and go for her but thats just what i think..

I love that answer.

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Thu Jun 26, 2008 6:40 pm

ya its a tad bit odd
but u never know ya'll might get married...
hope he's that good lol

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Fri Jun 27, 2008 3:23 am

JaredJUVENILE wrote:

Be.Hold.A.Lady wrote:: umm NOOO your not ready to get married. 4 months is nothing you think you know alot about him but you really dont and having kids is not good at your age
cause it takes alot of money to raise one ..nd he 16 , he still young so if he find some other girl he gonna leave you and go for her but thats just what i think..

I love that answer.

I love both answers. That was simple and straight. Kudos!

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Fri Jun 27, 2008 7:20 pm

Yeah, uh.
Obviously your not ready
but idk.
when you both go off to college you'll find different people.
High school relationships never work out
sorry

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Fri Jun 27, 2008 10:14 pm

oh my...
marriage is a big thing girl...
just hold on for a while... time will pass very fast...
before u know it... u're 21!!! ok???

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Sat Jun 28, 2008 5:49 pm

21?
id wait till college is out
thats like 22, 23

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Sun Jun 29, 2008 6:53 pm

Exactly....21 is when you find the guy....23 is where you marry the guy...25 is where you have kids!

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Sun Jun 29, 2008 7:31 pm

Wow Duck, it seems like you have your life planned out.

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Sun Jun 29, 2008 8:54 pm

JaredJUVENILE wrote:: Wow Duck, it seems like you have your life planned out.

Hahahahaha, you're so silly!
But no...I don't. I'd never plan that far ahead...and if I did, I wouldn't tell anyone. Because if I died people would blab about how I had so many plans and goals and blah blah. If you live life then things will fall into place. Sometimes if you put your focus in one place, it blocks all other things...and when I say other things, I mean potential destiny.

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Mon Jun 30, 2008 12:02 am

Amen lol

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Mon Jun 30, 2008 12:17 am

Hahahahahaha, I adore Taylor's sense of humor!

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Tue Jul 08, 2008 1:32 pm

i never said i wanted to think about marrige with him
or kids or anything
i just found it kind of odd

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Tue Jul 08, 2008 7:56 pm

lol, well in that case, that is indeed ODD!

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Tue Jul 29, 2008 1:30 am

yep its way odd, and way too fast. tell him he needs to chill.

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Tue Jul 29, 2008 9:26 am

yeah... kia is right...

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Wed Jul 30, 2008 1:45 am

Today I was on the phone with my bf and mentioned something about moving in together when we were older as a joke
and there wa an awkward silence and everything
It was hilarious
but humor is a good way to see where guys are in a relationship

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Wed Jul 30, 2008 11:10 am

oh my...
guys will either hate that kind of topic or love it...

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Thu Jul 31, 2008 2:01 am

True...and True (Deity/Taylor)

Subject: Re: Is this kind of weird? Fri Aug 01, 2008 9:30 am

ahahahahah...
i remember my sister's ex boyfriend told my sis that he sometimes wonder how my sis looks like if ever she's pregnant... ahahah!!!

my sis was freaked out!!! she was just i think 16 yrs old!!! ahahahah!!!