Best Friend?

I love my best friend like a sister, but she treats me like crap. Its come to the point where I don't know what to do anymore.

She's my best friend and she hates me. If she, the person closest to me, hates me then why would anyone else like me. They would hate me as well too, right?

My best friend even said that she never wanted to see me. If she doesn't want to see me then why would anyone else want to see me. I'm such a pain to my best friend, wouldn't that make me a pain to everyone else?

No person in the world can get as close to me as me and her are, but we get into fights constantly.

What do I do. She just brings me down and makes me feel worse and worse about myself. I'm such an asshole. I'm so annoying. I never cross her mind ever, but she is always on mine.

How can I feel confident with anyone else if she's always there to put me down. I love her, but I just can't take this anymore.


I'm sure you all guess who I'm talking about.

Yeah.
im sorry you're thinking like this..

I never said I never wanted to see you.

I just said im not comfortable seeing you with out my boyfriend
because my boyfriend isnt comfortable

you bring the worst out in me YOU NEVER STOP when i tell you too
its annoying
you never leave me alone when i ask
that makes me want to hurt somebody

but wouldnt is be awkward
if you were hanging out with him WITH your boyfriend

Some people bring themselves down and not only does it make them feel down (and in a negative mood) but it sorta obligates them to bring you down. Have you ever noticed your friend being down and you have to bring yourself down to comfort them and let them know that they aren't alone. I just wanted to say that...but it's easy for people to talk bad about you when they know the bad about you. Oh, but I don't think that people will hate you, because usually it's instinct for people to be polite when they meet or are in the beginning of a relationship. Let me gather my thoughts...lol...

Skylar: Act like my friend if you want to be. But you even said yourself "I don't want to be your friend" You're the closest person to me, how am I supposed to be best friends with someone else if the person I'nm closest to doesn't even want to be my friend.


Taylor: I agree, I todl that to Skylar, she still wont listen.

im sorry but i cant hang out with someone who cant get over it

Get over what? Liking you. How can anyone not like you? You should be used to it now. You're the most popular girl at your school. EVERYONE likes you.

Wow...the most popular girl! My school does not have a "popular" girl.

JaredJUVENILE wrote:

Skylar: Act like my friend if you want to be. But you even said yourself "I don't want to be your friend" You're the closest person to me, how am I supposed to be best friends with someone else if the person I'nm closest to doesn't even want to be my friend.


Taylor: I agree, I todl that to Skylar, she still wont listen.

Then don't be her friend. You can whine (I know that sounds harsh and all, but there's no other word to describe what yo do) about how Skylar puts you down and all, but that will never change anything. If you want to make you and Skylar's relationship right again (whether romantically or platonically) then talk to her about how you feel. And since you've said you've tried that already, then just stop trying, because you CAN'T change how people think and you CAN'T make them like you. The best thing I think, is to give Skylar space. To let her think and grow and learn in peace without you breathing down her back.
And you'll probably say "I can't do that. Skylar is the my closest friend, I can't just stop talking to her." But if you relly, really care, then you'd want her to be happy and you'd do anything to mke her happy.

And this is, of course, just my opinion, but I really think you should try out my advice. (unless of couse, Skylar doesn't want any space, in which case... idk, I'll figure that out later)

Amen.
do anyting to make her happy
if you really care about her

amen amen to brooke

See took the words right out of my mouth

uh ya u too

huh?

Lol, amen! I agree!

ya me too
...
wat r we agreeing to?

I forgot.,.